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Hime · 03-17-2008, 03:37 PM

Thanks for replying so quickly. I apreciate the candor.
If my husband though is fufilling himself by imagining sleeping with other women, how is that not cheating? Even after telling him how much that hurts me, shouldn't that be enough of a reason to stop? If it is no big deal (as many say), then why not stop and go to the one you married. Is it not true that if have done it in your heart then you are already guilty? I ask these things because until receintly, I would never even consider anyone other than my husband in my mind or heart.
It's true that what I am doing right now is not right. I seek no justification for it. I haven't discussed anything sexual in nature with the man I have been talking to but I understand where it will lead if it continues.

I know to some it may sound like I am the BAD GUY here. But if I didn't want to stay with my husband, I would not be here now.

03-17-2008, 03:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
Hime Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 3	Re: Internet Porn Thanks for replying so quickly. I apreciate the candor. If my husband though is fufilling himself by imagining sleeping with other women, how is that not cheating? Even after telling him how much that hurts me, shouldn't that be enough of a reason to stop? If it is no big deal (as many say), then why not stop and go to the one you married. Is it not true that if have done it in your heart then you are already guilty? I ask these things because until receintly, I would never even consider anyone other than my husband in my mind or heart. It's true that what I am doing right now is not right. I seek no justification for it. I haven't discussed anything sexual in nature with the man I have been talking to but I understand where it will lead if it continues. I know to some it may sound like I am the BAD GUY here. But if I didn't want to stay with my husband, I would not be here now.