| | Re: I need a guys perspective, why would he do this?
Does he have trouble coming?
I had a problem coming with my Mrs because, it turns out, my grip was too firm when masturbating. I too had gone off sex because it was a lot of work and when I failed to come my wife felt miserable and this set off a negative cycle.
He needs to recondition himself. Ask him not to masturbate for a week and send him sexy texts/emails etc. Then have a proper session on the weekend. Worked for us.
In the long term he might need to change his grip like me and reduce the amount he masturbates down to once or twice a week.