| | everyones option: breaking up
i'm really surprised about the amount of responses here to everyone's problems is simply to 'break up'. yes, people make mistakes, but surely just 'breaking up' with them is not necessarily the answer? otherwise why would they be posting here in the first place.
aren't relationships supposed to be things that require constant care and healing... mistakes, as horrible as they are, happen... and if people are not prepared to tolerate them and try to improve things, then what hope is there for anyone?
just a thought - wondering on other opinions...