Originally Posted by MSP
Or to put it another way, you can't trust a venomous snake to not bite you. It's in their nature. You have to avoid it.
see, i don't know.. maybe i have a mistrusted faith in people that when it comes down to it, all human beings are good... i know that sounds naive, but i think maybe comparing any human being to a venomous snake is not productive... maybe a better way to put it would be "if you know someone is not right for you, then don't bother going back" i dunno.
yes hurt happens, and sometimes it will be so much that you can never go back to that person - but there are always two sides to pretty much any dispute in a relationship.