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bhappy3 · 03-17-2008, 02:45 PM

There are plenty of ways for a woman to go out and have her alone time that do not involve "prime of their life" college boys. Really... how were you at that age... what a notch on their bedposts to get with a married older woman.

Also, the fact that you were being supportive and not facing your real feelings until she left is a bit of a problem... let her know how you feel otherwise you're just telling her it's ok! You said you got all that out of your system when you were younger... you mean you went out with horny girls while she sat at home?? I'm assuming you mean that you got it out of your system before the two of you got together.

One thing I'm noting is that she seems to have been with you since her mid teens. Are you the only man she's ever "been with"? If so, then she may just have a wild hair that she wants to know what it's like to be with someone else. In that case, you could do as one guy I knew did, and stand by her... let her know you're with her til the end and you'll be there when she's done meddling. It worked out for this guy I know, but that's not to say it would work out for everyone like that.

Like I said above, there are plenty of ways for a woman to get her alone time that don't involve horny boys... get her nails done, go to a spa day with her girlfriends, go on a cruise with her girlfriends, etc etc.

Best of luck to you, your post is screaming cheating to me. =)

03-17-2008, 02:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
bhappy3 Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 97	Re: opinions There are plenty of ways for a woman to go out and have her alone time that do not involve "prime of their life" college boys. Really... how were you at that age... what a notch on their bedposts to get with a married older woman. Also, the fact that you were being supportive and not facing your real feelings until she left is a bit of a problem... let her know how you feel otherwise you're just telling her it's ok! You said you got all that out of your system when you were younger... you mean you went out with horny girls while she sat at home?? I'm assuming you mean that you got it out of your system before the two of you got together. One thing I'm noting is that she seems to have been with you since her mid teens. Are you the only man she's ever "been with"? If so, then she may just have a wild hair that she wants to know what it's like to be with someone else. In that case, you could do as one guy I knew did, and stand by her... let her know you're with her til the end and you'll be there when she's done meddling. It worked out for this guy I know, but that's not to say it would work out for everyone like that. Like I said above, there are plenty of ways for a woman to get her alone time that don't involve horny boys... get her nails done, go to a spa day with her girlfriends, go on a cruise with her girlfriends, etc etc. Best of luck to you, your post is screaming cheating to me. =) __________________ :