PDJOVER

Amp,
I don't know if it's completely over or not. We had a nice talk and a soda at the loacal bar together this evening. I still think that anything she has with an OM is strictly emotional. Still as hurtful, but maybe not as hard to get over as a full blown affair. I'm trying to give her some space and see if the grass may not be greener. (God, I'm full of cliches.)

We've decided to wait to talk to the kids until she has more of an exit strategy, and we have the schedule for visitation worked out. One thing in my favor right now is that she can't afford an apartment, and I can't afford one and the house payment. I feel that the longer she is around home and sees my positive changes, the better the chance she will think about the consequences.

Now for the bad news, she has a First Responders meeting tonight and the OM? will be there. She said she plans to go out for a couple of drinks afterward. (She is Irish) I feel a lot more at peace with myself tonight, so I didn't make it an issue. I am going to go to my friends bar for a while and hang out. I was sure to tell her so she would know not to go there. She did say she may go out with her best friend, but I will have no way of knowing.

Pat