Re: I am new to this site...
Marriage isn't about working at it but rather doing a little something for it everyday.
You need to calmy communicate to him the things you want and need from the marriage. You need to tell him you feel like the relationship is drifting apart.
On another level you have to undertand and respect where your husband is at. You want affection but find it okay to control the affection he gets and wonder why he isn't more giving without communication or you leading by example.
In some ways it sounds like you have been a self fulfilling doom. You wanted to be a mommy and stay at home and your husband gives you all that but can't have one hobby?
draconis
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