Originally Posted by Covertx
How do you know it's going to hurt her. If you read my posts, we have never attempted anal sex. It's not as if we got close but it hurt her and now I'm demanding she continue trying it and to ignore the pain. She hasn't tried it with me. No one knows for a fact if it would hurt or not. I'm upset that she isn't willing to try.
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Have not seen this asked yet, but have thought it and your posts reinforces my suspicion...
Do you believe your wife when she says that anal sex hurt? If the answer is "no", you need to seriously consider whether you have good reason to doubt her. If she has a habit of lying and you think this is the same, you need to be honest with her.
If you don't doubt her, you need to listen to her. As opposed to the great BJ controversy (which is really largely about ick factor and personal biases), anal sex carries real risk of physical harm and infection (for you and her) in addition to the pain.