Originally Posted by Tall Average Guy
For it to be a double standard, it has to be similar events that are being treated differently. But you are comparing different things. The wives are not asking to go to the wine bar with the two hot studly bar tenders to serve them. They want to go to a dance club where there are men who want to dance with them while buying them alcohol and hoping to pick them up. Think of it as passive versus active.
I agree with yopu here. If a group of women go to a dance club - particularly an attractive group - almost certainly some guys will want to dance with them. Some may even try to pick them up.
I guess my next question is ... so what? Do we fear our wives cannot resist these handsome strangers? Do we believe our wives can't say 'thanks, but no thanks'? Are our wives really so easy?
Look, I can understand a guy putting his foot down when his wife is out clubbing regularly. That displays a less-than-wifely mindset.
But as a once-a-year thing? I think a woman who doesn't want to cheat can somehow manage not to. Posted via Mobile Device