Originally Posted by Kimberley17
It does not have anything to do with physical changes. He looks the same as when we got married. I think you hit it when you mentioned built up resentment. At this point I wouldn't care if he avoided sex with me. I wish he would. If it was earlier in the marriage when everything was going well it would have hurt. I don't know what I would have wanted him to do to get it back. If I knew that I'd do it. Do you think you can get it back once it's gone??
I think MC would be a good place to start. That and letting go of old resentments. Couldn't do much more damage than what's happening now, could it?