 Re: Understanding the pain
Awesome post. I take a lot from that even though my OH didn't have a full-blown affair. The betrayal I felt at the things he did do, the lying, secrecy and feelings for the OW did make me feel like he had died and there was someone else here in his body.
The trouble is that he thinks he still is that person from before. But to me he is not and never will be. I've gotten used to the new one. He is different but in good ways I think.
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