tobio

I am going to play devil's advocate here and say I have had post-natal depression and "normal" depression in my life many times. And the effect it has on your memory can be scary. I have chunks missing from my life, including a while during when my oldest child was a baby which makes me incredibly sad when I realise how much I can't remember.

I will say though that to claim she can't remember AT ALL contact over two years? It is possible that a) she genuinely can't remember as she says or b) the contact was maybe in the realm of mild EA, ie texting that was not so involved so it simply doesn't register in her memory.

Or of course it could be c) and she's using the depression as a cover and she can remember. You know her best - what's your instinct saying?
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