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Originally Posted by draconis
How long do you want to be her back up boyfriend? Here is a woman that is leading a double life because you let her, and what is to say if she dumps the guy that she is with and goes with you that she will be faithful to you seeing that she has already been unfaithful to atleast two other guys.
draconis
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How long do you want to be her back up boyfriend?
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Other than the first time we had sex I never did want to be her back up boyfriend and that's why I ended it. I also suspected that she might do that to me if I was her official boyfriend but I have to wonder if that's an issue I had with my own insecurities at the time. I am just wondering that had I been more assertive and voiced my concerns she may have broken it off with him. I think she thought I only cared about the sex at the time.
Your post pretty much defines how I felt at the time. The thing is, as I age, I am beginning to second guess how I have managed past failed relationships. Maybe I should be more willing to take risk rather than focus on what might go wrong.