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Old 02-16-2012, 03:58 PM   #32 (permalink)
Shaggy
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Originally Posted by mikeydread1982 View Post
This kind of advice again. You know this type of stuff gets people hurt, right? He just needs to sort out his business and move on. That is such a b!tch move to ruin careers because his woman can't keep her legs closed. If my woman cheats, how can I be mad at the guy? HE'S A GUY! He needs to check her!

Yes, they're both at fault, I know that's the sole argument, but who is MOST at fault here? Her. Deal with the consequences within the marriage, whatever that may entail for you now, but don't be a sour grape kinda guy, no one respects him.
It's not a b#tch move. Its called telling the truth and holding people accountable for their actions.

Keeping silent and helping people cover up things is not only incredibly passive, but it just reinforces with them and others that this crap is tolerated.
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