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Amplexor · 03-18-2008, 11:05 AM

Suzy

Yes he does need to take ownership but before things can really improve for you as a couple he needs to move on from the affair. If he wants the relationship to work he can’t continue to throw that up in your face. Sounds as if there is more at play in the relationship and this is an easy dagger to throw. Therapists aren’t cheap, you are right but it might help. If he is spiritual in nature seeing a clergyman might help. Most churches are all about forgiveness. In the meantime if you can prep him for a talk about the marriage and let him know you are concerned and want to address the issues you have today and not bring up the past that would be a good place to start. Don’t know if he’ll comply but that would be my strategy. Good luck.

03-18-2008, 11:05 AM	#3 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 527	Re: PLEASE HELP I cheated Suzy Yes he does need to take ownership but before things can really improve for you as a couple he needs to move on from the affair. If he wants the relationship to work he can’t continue to throw that up in your face. Sounds as if there is more at play in the relationship and this is an easy dagger to throw. Therapists aren’t cheap, you are right but it might help. If he is spiritual in nature seeing a clergyman might help. Most churches are all about forgiveness. In the meantime if you can prep him for a talk about the marriage and let him know you are concerned and want to address the issues you have today and not bring up the past that would be a good place to start. Don’t know if he’ll comply but that would be my strategy. Good luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.