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Sorry for your pain.
Who did she write this email to?
You are going to have to confront her with your knowledge. You said you "came across the email." Does that mean you went looking for it? From your posts it sounds as if you always wondered if she had feelings for someone else. Why? And did you wonder about that guy specifically? You said you asked her this during your engagement so I am wondering, what is the back story there.
Her having ANY contact with this guy is bad news for your marriage. You said they "sparingly" have contact but even that is too much.