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Old 02-18-2012, 02:21 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hi MS sorry you are here I feel you 2 options either accept it and have an open marriage
Or fight like heck for your marriage. I feel that marriage is between 2 people and would
Not want anymore in my marriage I think you need to confront her on what info you have and also
And if you want to Recover or Divorce make a decision it is your God given option
According to the bible. If you chose recovery I would start with Installing a keylogger on her computer
Unbeknown to her. I would gather as much info as you can including info on the OP
This would be used for exposing the A. Also I find out if OM is married etc and give them a call
Do not let yr ww or the om know what you are doing. I would expose the affair as soon as possible to everyone that you and ww know parents etc set some guidelines on what you would like in the marriage such as no other parties in the marriage no contact for life of affair party etc. Others will be be shortly to offer their advise again this is your decision to make if you want to continue the marrriage or not.
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