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Vanton68 · 02-18-2012, 08:12 PM

Wow, that sucks MS. You will get great advice from the guys here. The silver lining in your story is that you found out right away (relatively speaking). So YOU get to make the decision. You are in CONTROL of what happens next. You could be like some of us finding out years later and everything you have done since their affair seems hollow.

So clear your head, take the advice, give yourself some thinking time and make a choice. Are you AD? If you are, how will you get through the next deployment without going crazy?

Good luck!

02-18-2012, 08:12 PM	#10 (permalink)
Vanton68 Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 219	Re: Wife's hidden affair while deployed but "Fixing" Wow, that sucks MS. You will get great advice from the guys here. The silver lining in your story is that you found out right away (relatively speaking). So YOU get to make the decision. You are in CONTROL of what happens next. You could be like some of us finding out years later and everything you have done since their affair seems hollow. So clear your head, take the advice, give yourself some thinking time and make a choice. Are you AD? If you are, how will you get through the next deployment without going crazy? Good luck!