Originally Posted by Devastated2
My divorce attorney said that the divorce papers will be filed this week. My attorney is also going to issue a temporary injunction for her to leave and so I can give her half of the divorce settlement money. So she will be completely cut off financially very soon.
She is planning to start moving out March 1st into her new place. She has talked about not finishing moving out until the middle of March, but I am not going to allow that whether she thinks so or not.
I have not been wearing my wedding ring at all since I confronted her.
What should I say to her if anything today? I feel like I should tell her that she needs to be out of my house completely the weekend after March 1st. I am thinking about telling her that I deserve to be with someone who treats me better than how she has been treating me. I'm just so sick of her lies.
I planning on telling her that she is on a very short leash with regard to custody of our boys. I am going to keep a very close eye on our boys and I'm going to fight her for custody if I don't feel like our sons are a priority over her partying and dating.
I appreciate everyone's advice about what to say to her.
Tacoma - what can I do to start earning back her respect.
I'm sorry for everything you are going through.
I'll get bashed but I do see where turnera is coming from. It's sad when parents fight as to who doesn't have to take the boys. Regardless of valid reasons, that is the message that they hear or will realize someday.
I'm married with no where to drop my kids off every second weekend and yet we manage downtime with babysitters and after kids go to bed.
While you have admitted faults - neglect, etc., that is no excuse for the worthless crap your wife has become. There are moral ways for her to deal with that such as divorce. Posted via Mobile Device