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TDSC60 · 02-19-2012, 12:24 PM

In the e-mail she talks about a guy she was with for 4 years who broke-up with her as he had wanted time for his professional career and with whom she is in touch although sparingly . But in the email she talks of him as the love of her life that she could not hold on to . Someone she will always love. But thing that had me actually floored was this line " I wouldn't think 2ice if he asked me to come away with him. Although I know that is ever gonna happen but I would always wait for him.I know that I Peter(me) would be heartbroken but he is strong man he can get over it easily."

Didn't see that the email was sent 6 months before you were married - but even so, the bold statements would still bother me. All this 6 months prior to marriage makes you a rebound 2nd choice.

Were you engaged when she wrote this?

Is she still in contact with this guy? Considering her stated feelings about him, even occasional contact would bother me no end. She is just keeping her feelings for him fresh and torturing you.

You need to talk to her.

02-19-2012, 12:24 PM	#36 (permalink)
TDSC60 Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: SE USA Posts: 1,406	Re: Don't Know what to do ????? In the e-mail she talks about a guy she was with for 4 years who broke-up with her as he had wanted time for his professional career and with whom she is in touch although sparingly . But in the email she talks of him as the love of her life that she could not hold on to . Someone she will always love. But thing that had me actually floored was this line " I wouldn't think 2ice if he asked me to come away with him. Although I know that is ever gonna happen but I would always wait for him.I know that I Peter(me) would be heartbroken but he is strong man he can get over it easily." Didn't see that the email was sent 6 months before you were married - but even so, the bold statements would still bother me. All this 6 months prior to marriage makes you a rebound 2nd choice. Were you engaged when she wrote this? Is she still in contact with this guy? Considering her stated feelings about him, even occasional contact would bother me no end. She is just keeping her feelings for him fresh and torturing you. You need to talk to her.