Originally Posted by Lionelhutz
I'm in a sexless marriage, but that is pretty much where my ability to relate to your husband ends.
It sounds like there are multiple problems. He is/has been cheating (probably still is) and he is such a nutase that he got you fired.
You have openly talked about divorce, but it is poverty that is keeping you together.
I think its a safe bet that you are the intended audience for his masturbation. If he wanted to be discrete he could.
Why don't you decide to be roommates and sleep in separate rooms?
I had my own room for about 2 months, then like so many others, my adult child moved back home for a few months- and gone is my own space