Originally Posted by daisygirl 41
So we talked. He said friendship is all he can give me right now. He's sorry for hurting me and truly cares for me but that's all he can give. We both cried. He was visibly upset.we spoke about divorce. Neither of us us ready for that yet. We spoke about finances. Money is a bit tight but be said the house is mine and the kids and he will never see us short of cash whatever happens.
Life just stinks at the moment. X
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Maybe MLC? Any chance of MC?
Mine has almost said the same thing but I don't believe him... why should I he left us. He hasn't done anything to help our situation in anyway shape or form. But I am w/ you. I think he needs time and hope he will change his mind, but I don't know how much longer I can wait either. I keep saying I am a patient person... but not when there are no signs of him trying (just the opposite). The day before he moved out he was still making my coffee and walking me to my car in the morning (no kiss like there use to be but it was still part of a sweet routine).
I don't know if there's OW or what at this point if he would be willing to go to MC I'd try to work w/ him through anything.