Re: Please help me...Trying to cope with his infidelity
I woud deffently find out what he was missing from your relationship. You talk about how he would kiss you and so forth and how it made you feel. I guess as a man I would have to ask what were you doing to make him feel the same way. You may have been doing everything I don't know but for most men to cheat it is because they are missing somthing. The feeling of being needed, wanted, desired or loved. The two of you realy need to have a long talk and maybe have a third person there to talk with you. As far as not trusting him. That will take time, what he did was wrong and cut to your soul. Those wounds happen fast but can take years to heal, if they heal at all. It is going to take great effort on your part to trust him. You will just about need to force yourself to do it I'm affraid. I do beleave though that people can make mistakes, even one such as this and still move on. I guess it is just according to how strong your love realy is in the end.
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