Coping

My feelings are that I still love him despite of it all and I do want to be able to get past this. (If you like, take a look at the bottom of my original post, I added a few comments to it this morning). That will answer your question "Is it over".

As for the meeting, by the time he walked through the front door I was numb. We talked, or should I say, I talked and demanded answers, which he did provide, but it did go rather calmly.

The affair was not a one night thing, it had been going on for six months. On his days off of work (Thursdays, he would go over to her house, while I was at work). Through talking to him about it I learned that there were quite a few times that when I would call him to say hello and see how his day was going he was right there with her.

His reasoning for it having happened, it claims that he doesn't really know why. There are many things that I pointed out to him about what had been happening between us and he states that he realizes that I had been right all along.

Then about two hours after me being made fully aware of his infidelity he made another mind blowing remark to me. He actually had the audacity proposed to me. He asked me if I would marry him and be his wife forever. We are legally married, he wants to renew our wedding vows. How's that one?