Originally Posted by TDSC60
Yes it is possible. But how many cheating spouses suddenly stop on their own without getting caught then do a complete about face to become the perfect spouse?
Possible - yes, probable - maybe, reformed - too early to tell.
I don't think you could to be honest. Not because it's my wife and i'm hurt but it's logic. No one grows a conscience over night. It cold be that being rejected the OM made her realize that she risked too much for so little BUT in reality the attentions seeking never stopped from her. While she was having the EA she was e-mailing another ex for closure and she had been speaking with another male friend on messenger (she says platonic) behind my back. My thought on 3rd guy is if it was so platonic then why keep it a secret?
That's why I don't believe it is possible to stop and have nothing else going on.