Originally Posted by Caligyrl
Cybersex, phonesex, online sex, porn sites, it does not matter. Bottom line is-if your husband has a "happy ending" with someone other than you......it's CHEATING! Plain black and white.
Like has been said already many times in this thread, each couple needs to decide for themselves what constitutes cheating. And unless boundaries are clearly stated before they're crossed, don't expect to be on the same page about it either, when one spouse ends up sending nude photos and sexy chats/emails to someone else whom they've never met and tries to use the fact they've never met as an excuse.
The ONLY true thing that can be said for every couple is that if it isn't something that both spouses would agree is ok, then it's cheating. So if I have agreed to never show another man my ankles and I do, then I have cheated on my husband. And if I have agreed that my husband can hire escorts when away on business trips, then he isn't cheating when he does so.