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Old 02-22-2012, 12:33 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: Addiction Problem or Motivation Problem?

His addiction is a symptom of a much larger problem. From my experience he will not change until he has to. As long as you are supporting him he does not have to.

I'm going through something similar with my husband except add PC gaming and no job for 10 years.

He's not going to change. What you see is what you get.

You are young, young enough to start over with a man who will love you and work with you, not use you.
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