| | Re: I feel guilty because my wife doesn't ask for anything (but keeps me satisfied)
Has your wife gone through menopause? If she's in her mid-50's, she could be experiencing a lot of vaginal dryness. As women age, and their hormones decline in their body, the vagina thins and lubrication decreases and for some, their libido can decline precipitously.
Ask her if she is having issues with those things, or if she is experiencing pain and discomfort now. A trip to the ob-gyn could potentially help her in those cases.
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