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Originally Posted by shelovesmenot
She says that if one person (me) is initiating the love (not just making love - all the other little things), affection and attention in the marriage that it is ok. She says a lot of marriages are that way and I should be happy with that.
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really? I don't know of any one-sided marriages where the ignored spouse is happy. Sounds to me like she just wants to be taken care of but too selfish to be in a marriage. I'd move on.