Originally Posted by ocotillo

I am that husband too.

I don't have a favorite anything (Music, food, color, etc.) because I like damn near everything. On the other hand, my wife is one of the pickiest human beings I know.

She'll agonize for ten minutes straight about what to order at a restaurant and even longer about what to wear.

When you have two people where one is happy with almost everything and the other is happy with only a narrow range of things, it's inevitable that the picky person gets to decide if the goal is for both people to be happy.