| | Re: Wife suggesting I get my sex elsewhere
"she would do anything to save the marriage"
Her actions do not match her words. Need to bump back at her on this point.
My take is she has lost her respect for you, consequently she is no longer attracted to you, but likes her life just the way it is. In Athol Kay's words, you may need to destabilize the relationship in order to get her to reset her priorities and reawaken her attraction for you. No guarantee of success, but understand that doing the same thing over again and expecting different results is the functional definition of insanity. You need to shake things up a bit... Excellent guidance can be found elsewhere on this site and at Athol Kay's site.
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