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qq49h · 03-20-2008, 08:43 AM

Well it has been a few days. We have spoke a couple times, she went to counseling yesterday, and I go today. On Tuesday, she said that she feels like she wants to be alone for awhile with the kids. I was devastated.
Talked again today and it seems like she just wants to simplify and that the things that were important before aren't anymore. For example, big house, nice cars,... She also doesn't want to be told how to live her life. Which she admits I never did. She mentioned that the counselor said that it is a shift in her life and she is making more of big deal than others. Then she said she wants to get a apartment and live on her own. She said that this was a little step to get through. I informed her that this a big step. She said"so your telling me what to do"? This is where I knew that is not much I can do right now. She wants to do what she wants to do. I doubt it but hopefully she will find out what is most important. Who knows what that is?

03-20-2008, 08:43 AM	#9 (permalink)
qq49h Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 11	Re: opinions Well it has been a few days. We have spoke a couple times, she went to counseling yesterday, and I go today. On Tuesday, she said that she feels like she wants to be alone for awhile with the kids. I was devastated. Talked again today and it seems like she just wants to simplify and that the things that were important before aren't anymore. For example, big house, nice cars,... She also doesn't want to be told how to live her life. Which she admits I never did. She mentioned that the counselor said that it is a shift in her life and she is making more of big deal than others. Then she said she wants to get a apartment and live on her own. She said that this was a little step to get through. I informed her that this a big step. She said"so your telling me what to do"? This is where I knew that is not much I can do right now. She wants to do what she wants to do. I doubt it but hopefully she will find out what is most important. Who knows what that is?