demora

Thanks for your thoughts swedish. And don't apologize for your feedback....I'm looking for all points of view. I feel like I've talked until I'm blue in the face about most of the things in the letter, but I'm awful at saying what I need to say....I guess I'm a lot like you in that when it comes to things coming out of my mouth, I never can get out things that might hurt someone else....so I guess I turn to my fingers. I do appreciate what you've said and I will think on it. I haven't given him the letter yet and I don't know when I plan/want to. I don't want it to cause more problems.

Who'd have thought this would be so hard (being married I mean)?