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Old 03-20-2008, 03:03 PM   #4 (permalink)
Immortalone
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Default Re: Letter to my husband...

The letter is good but to me it is missing one major thing. This letter is telling him everything he has done wrong in your marriage. If your husband is watching porn all the time then what is he missing. If he is not helping around the house is it because he feels like anything he does will not be good enough? I have no idea the answers to these questions but what I am trying to get at is, you don't ask him what is wrong. You tell him what is wrong from your point of view. Were is the communiaction at in this letter. Were do you ask, what can we do as a couple to make this better? What do you feel your missing from me? How do you feel we got to this point? See what I'm saying? This letter is everything you see that he has done wrong. That will make his defenses go up if you do not ask how WE as a couple can change together to get that spark and drive back into our lifes.
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