tryingtomakeitwork

Once again thank you for your good advice. It's crazy how I ended up on something like this. I'm definately not one to really seek help, I am more of a learn as you go kind of guy. Maybe it's the Marine/Drill Instructor in me but then again I have never been in a situation like I am now. You know after cooling down and reading what you all wrote something stuck in my head and thats what Recent Cloud wrote which is, "but keep in mind your wife has yet to witness the 'transformation' and is understandably skeptical." I have come up with an idea and I really do hope it works. I am going to be everything that she wants me to be and more! I will show her that I can be the husband she wants me to be. I hope that this will show her that I have learned and I am now ready to really be there for her. I mean don't get me wrong I don't ever think I was bad but like she says I wasn't really there emotionally for her. Once again thanks to everybody on here I didn't like everything I heard from you guys but sometimes the truth hurts. I needed to hear this from somebody other than my wife. You know I live my life telling people what to do and holding myself to a high standard, following orders and not asking questions regarding any mission but it seems that I was bringing that home with me and not taking my families feelings into consideration and I can only hope that I can fix this before its to late!