| | Re: How to cope?
Wabash, impotence, as noted above, has many causes and aggravating factors, both physical and emotional. That's something he's going to have to work out. Re forgiving, forgiveness does not necessarily mean absolution. Read Janis Spring's book " How Can I Forgive You?" Sometimes the injury is so grave that absolution is not appropriate, but you can reach acceptance, which is also a form of forgiveness.