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Chopblock · 03-21-2008, 04:32 PM

"Try going without (REGULARLY) for a month or more like is the case in our marriage."

Bad idea dude -- once she gets used to having it less, you won't even get the "bad sex". How do I know that? 6 months and counting, thats how.

She has convinced HERSELF that something is wrong, and she isn't going to change her opinion until she is darn well ready. You can try and try and try. You can do all the housework, pay 100% of the bills, shower her with gifts, and all you'll end up doing is rewarding bad behavior.

All this "I'm not in the mood", I'm too tired" they are just excuses. I'm not saying people are never "not in the mood" or never "tired" but when you get the same routine 3 or 4 times in the row, you know its a lie.

Make peace with it because the odds are highly against it changing the way you want it to.

03-21-2008, 04:32 PM	#19 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 213	Re: Limited Sex - Arguments "Try going without (REGULARLY) for a month or more like is the case in our marriage." Bad idea dude -- once she gets used to having it less, you won't even get the "bad sex". How do I know that? 6 months and counting, thats how. She has convinced HERSELF that something is wrong, and she isn't going to change her opinion until she is darn well ready. You can try and try and try. You can do all the housework, pay 100% of the bills, shower her with gifts, and all you'll end up doing is rewarding bad behavior. All this "I'm not in the mood", I'm too tired" they are just excuses. I'm not saying people are never "not in the mood" or never "tired" but when you get the same routine 3 or 4 times in the row, you know its a lie. Make peace with it because the odds are highly against it changing the way you want it to.