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Originally Posted by Amplexor
Make sure he understands just how much this hurt you. You will need to regain trust and find forgiveness for him in order to move on in the relationship.
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When it first happened, I'm sure he knew how much it hurt me. But I don't think he really understands that it still hurts.
I thought I had forgiven him, but maybe I haven't completely...how am I to go about doing that exactly? And yes trust is kind of an issue, I check the computer history and cell phone, but nothing is going on. Thats good, but I can't go on like this forever. I'm hesitant to say anything again because my last try didn't go so well. But that time I was looking for answers from him, and maybe this time I should just let him know how I'm feeling, without really coming down him, and see how that works. I have found that if I wait until we are doing some kind of task together, the dishes, or folding clothes after the kids are in bed, that in fact he is much more responsive than a one on one sit down. I'll just have to wait for the right time.