Originally Posted by melissa68

yes its a joint acct....one we opened a week before he left...s'plain that one Lucy....I dont get why he did a lot of things he did right before he left....that was one of them...signing us all up for health ins at his work as a surprise to me....we had talked about it and I told him it was too much we could do without....he came home and told me he went ahead and did it because he wanted us all to be healthy and protected....its 300 a mth for coverage. Why do that if you're leaving?

Anyway I know none of his threats have any validity....it was like a little boy kicking and screaming...give me my way or I'll.... sad really. I'm not going to make his car payment....I am keeping all the tax money and I will be at the bank next friday taking out whatever I can then too.....screw him. He wanted this....well welcome to it. My kids aren't going to suffer over his selfishness.