Originally Posted by Minncouple
She actually complains that the guy is such a jerk, control freak, anoying and she feels bad for his wife and she could never be with a guy like that. Seemed odd to me, that comment.
That's the kind of stuff my wife said about literally every guy she did inappropriate things with. The guy she had an EA with was ugly and she would never get with a guy like that. The guy she was trying to exchange naked pictures with was a c*cky a**hole who was ugly. The guy she slept with was disgusting and too short and a ****y jerk. The more I heard her talk about how she would NEVER go for "a guy like that" the more I realized she was just trying to lie to herself.
You have to know the difference between making an offhand comment, and protesting too much. From what you said, sounds like she is protesting too much. As someone else said, if he's that much of a douche, why is she so happy to talk to him.
And also, there's no secrets in a marriage. If you think your wife can't cheat, or that you can't cheat, you're being delusional. Don't think twice about checking her emails and texts and what not. A marriage where that stuff is secret is just asking for trouble. Trust, but verify.