Deejo

I wanted to. So did she at one point. We wanted to reconcile for the kids, and to recover what we had - a decade ago.

It wasn't going to work. It didn't work. Neither of us doubts that we can find happiness apart. What was far less certain was if we could find it together.

Issues are never as cut and dry as they appear, and if they have built up over years, it can take years to undo them.

When it comes down to it, we both know what we missed about our marriage. But the reality was, that we didn't have what we wanted in our marriage for many years.

I know very well how rough it can be, and will be. Keep going.