Re: I need some advice...
Well I hope this is helpful.
First look at yourself. You ned inner strength to how outer strength. If you feel bad about the way you look join a gym or the Y. Not only will you get the body you want but you will also release hormones that make you happy as well. Further, it is a good way to fight or rather burn up sexual energy.
Second start to make touch a part of every routine. When your husband leaves ask for a kiss and hug as well as when he comes home. Ask to cuddy during tv or movie time. When you go out get him in the habit of holding hands.
Third if it is the pure sex you still miss talk to him about going to the doctor with him. Tell him you are worried he might have low hormone levels. Because you are coming across as worried you will not seem like you want something from him.
Offer to give back rubs on days he says he is stressed or tired, who knows where that can lead.
Lastly, use pillow talk to communicate with him that the touch from sex is something you desire, want and need from him. Pillow talk can often work so well because there is little to no other distractions.
Remember, that his sex drive probably has nothing to do with you, how much you weigh or how you look. I am sure he finds you attractive otherwise you two wouldn't be together in the first place.
I do have a few questions what are your ages, religion and where either married before?
draconis
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