Thorburn

I would go dark. Try to hide what you know and try to put up a strong fake front. Record, copy, print out what you can and safeguard it.

Go to an attorney.

If you want to file for divorce then file.

Make sure like Kando says, create a plan.

I would not let your husband know anything until you are ready to hit him with the big gun.

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