| | Re: It hurts sooooo bad right now ...
I've calmed down since this afternoon. I've formulated a plan for getting her out.
I'm going to borrow on my 401K and give her the money to leave. She and her debts go with the divorce.
No claim on the house, no child support (they stay with me), joint custody. She can come in any time to visit, just so long as I am not there, no staying over.
She takes her car, I'll pay the insurance for the next two years, I'll pay tuition for this fall.
Seems equitable to me, since she is the one who wants the divorce.
What do you guys think?