Originally Posted by thrway214

To be clear. I am not asking her to stay. I have said that I will not file for two months, just to give myself time. That doesn't mean I am waiting for her to come back.

As for freezing accounts - she really cannot do much. I have statements going back years. And she can take the cash, but there are physical assets that will more than make up for what she can move around. I have talked to an attorney about this.

I have made it clear that a complete NC, with full transparency is the only way to an R. She is reluctant to go there. I cannot make it any clearer. I have also insisted that R includes proper MC. I have told her that all these things still doesn't guarantee that I will want to stay married to her ass. We will see.