| | Re: finding out
My birthday, January '10. My girls were wanting to sing happy birthday to their daddy. I went in the kitchen to see a cake with no candles in it, no cards, presents or anything. My girls did make me cards and sang happy birthday while my wife sat in the livingroom on the phone. Looking back it could have been him she was talking to, I dunno. Never in our 15 year relationship had she been so cold towards me.
There was an argument that night and I got the first taste of a WS caught in the fog. She was explaining to me how she just wanted to feel loved and appreciated and how she was thinking of seperation and all of the routine chatter......So thinking it was me I tried everything I could to be a better man (or what she was wanting).
Fast forward 5 months later and she keep pushing me and pushing me to move out so she could "have some space." At some point I decided to go with that feeling in my gut and checked cell phone bill. Sure enough thousands of texts a month, more minutes and calls that I can count all to the same number, over and over again. I got a coworker to call the number from work and asked who he was, and he gave his first and last name.... He was my wife's kick boxing instructor at the YMCA. And right then and there my heart just felt like someone stuck a knife in it and twisted it over and over.
Just writing this brings back some bad feelings.
Originally Posted by RWB
Cold, stare you right in the face and lie without any emotion. Damn the LIES!