Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - I should have listened to the advice given here!

timeisup · 03-01-2012, 11:18 AM

Wow bandit, thanks for the response!

The EA has been over as far as I can tell since end of August. I only found one day in October with 40 text messages. From what I can tell, it never became physical.

The issue for me now is that I don't believe I can ever trust her. She had six months since DDay to come clean including three months of counseling. Everytime I look into things further, I find more.

How do I know she doesn't have another phone or he doesn't? How can I be sure it never was physical? I work all day while she is home most of the time. The OM was about two hours away, not impossible distance for a day trip.

03-01-2012, 11:18 AM	#7 (permalink)
timeisup Registered User Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 9	Re: I should have listened to the advice given here! Wow bandit, thanks for the response! The EA has been over as far as I can tell since end of August. I only found one day in October with 40 text messages. From what I can tell, it never became physical. The issue for me now is that I don't believe I can ever trust her. She had six months since DDay to come clean including three months of counseling. Everytime I look into things further, I find more. How do I know she doesn't have another phone or he doesn't? How can I be sure it never was physical? I work all day while she is home most of the time. The OM was about two hours away, not impossible distance for a day trip.