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Amplexor · 03-25-2008, 09:27 AM

I think you have taken some very positive steps already. Add Drac’s advice and you’ve got a pretty good recipe for recovery but it will be slow. You never said what your behaviors were that were causing problems for you both but you must get these under control. You must communicate your needs as well as discuss the things that bother you and not “bottle them up” This is destructive and will only damage an already fragile situation. Spend time together. Playing WoW from separate rooms is not couple time. Do not fail in your no contact with TOM. Remember this will take time. Good luck.

03-25-2008, 09:27 AM	#3 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 740	Re: Help a friend I think you have taken some very positive steps already. Add Drac’s advice and you’ve got a pretty good recipe for recovery but it will be slow. You never said what your behaviors were that were causing problems for you both but you must get these under control. You must communicate your needs as well as discuss the things that bother you and not “bottle them up” This is destructive and will only damage an already fragile situation. Spend time together. Playing WoW from separate rooms is not couple time. Do not fail in your no contact with TOM. Remember this will take time. Good luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.