Originally Posted by worrieddad
I think if you have to ask....you already know what the answer is.
Any dumper who is having misgivings seriously enough will come to you to talk it through. By asking, all you are doing is stoking their ego, and I think it would serve more to validate their actions rather than anything else.
Okay, WD what if it weren't asked just "your welcome back if you want to come back" rather than asking?