Originally Posted by calif_hope
Only thing I can say is trust only what you can varify. Assume she is withholding truth from you. Remain or become an Alpha make, and don't make major decisions like reconciliation or divorce until you had time to recover from the weekend.......
Consider what you shared - mechanical sex but went back several times....she pursued him.....
You two have lots to work on!
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She told me the reason she had the affair with him was to make herself feel powerful. She could do things to him that his girlfriend hadn't and she was fulfilling a fantasy for him by being an older woman and attractive. She has always had issues with sex in the past, shes always kinda separated that from love. Sex is just kinda sex to her, but it was always just supposed to be between us. She also felt she never satisfied me enough to my liking because of her low sex drive. Ego played a big part in her mindset and why she did these things